Sunday, 21 June 2015

An Eulogy To Be Read When I'm Gone


Whenever I Google. "Topics to blog about", this topic often comes around. It seems to be famous topic among bloggers. Even recently, my good friend Kugarubaan wrote on this topic and you can view that in the link below


For those who doesn't know what Eulogy means, well according to Wikipedia, an eulogy means "a speech or writing in praise of a person(s) or thing(s), especially one who recently died or retired or as a term of endearment. Eulogies may be given as part of funeral services."

My concept of the eulogy which will be written here is based on a style whereby the person who knows me best reads it as a speech during my funeral. It's a speech whereby based on the life I have/would lived and would love to be remember by forever. When people think of Sukesh Pandian, this is what they should remember.


Dearly beloved,

We are gathered here today to mourn the lose of someone special in our life. I have known Sukesh for many years and I am proud enough to say I know the man the best there is. It's been a privilege to travel in the journey of life with someone like Sukesh, and his demise today is something I am going to carry on for a life time

Knowing Sukesh, he was someone who never likes a sorrow sad occasion. He reminds me a lot of this dialogue from The Series Friends, which goes by as "Hi am Chandler, I make jokes when I am uncomfortable". Well you could replace the name Chandler with Sukesh and there you that is how he is. He likes to joke and kid around when things seems quite and akward.

And that is one his best feature to be honest, because around him you can never feel sad or down. He will find a way to put a smile on you and change your mood. With him around, you automatically become a much more positive person.

To me that is how Sukesh Pandian should be remembered. He is the man who can turn your bad day into your greatest day, he can take someone who is emotionally down and turn them to the happiest person, he can take someone who thinks they are a failure and create a wonderful success story. Above all he shows you the best way to live life is by putting on a smile, and not worrying too much about your problems because its always easier to deal with your problem with a smile instead of a frown.

Many might know Sukesh as the STATS Charger inventor, but I know Sukesh as the guy who changes people life by just talking to them. Thank you.

I dont know what kind of a person I am to you, I may have done some bad and hurt you but end of the day I would love to be remembered as a good guy. We all make mistakes and I apologies for mine. I know this wont be the exact words read at my funeral, but this is the way I aspire to live my life and to be remembered  

Friday, 19 June 2015

Under The Spotlight: Romeo Juliet

As the tittle says, Romeo Juliet is film centered around love, but its not your classic cult film which the lead characters goes against the world to prove their love and become one of the greatest love story of all time. No this is a love story with a modern touch to suit what the director's image of how Men and Women in the current generation perception of love and relationship. I repeat it's the director's view on things and doesn't represent the entire truth.


Story Review

The story is very simple in this film actually. Boy looks for his dream girl to fall in love and get married. He believes he will know who the one is when he meet's her for the very first time (yes love at first sight and he is ready to marry). Meanwhile girl's definition of love and marriage is that the guy has to be good looking and above all MUST BE RICH.

The heroine is air hostess and one day she bumps across the hero in her business class flight and sees him being requested to sit behind someone influential and famous on that flight. Believing he is rich and handsome, she tries to impress him with her looks but that din go to plan.

Later with the help of her friends, they track down the hero and stalks him to see he drives in an expensive car, uses a platinum credit card and drives into a wealthy house (which all doesn't belong to him). Seeing all this, she is convinced that he rich and decides to love him and win his attention

After a sequence of events they fall in love, but the heroine doesn't know that the hero is not rich and when she finds that out, she dumps him. He begs for a chance and she decides to teach him a lesson that money is everything by making him bring her out and spend lavishly. Eventually she dumps him

Fast forward a couple of months, the heroine gets engaged to a wealthy man and the hero starts to threaten her. He blackmails her into making her find a girl for him which will make him forget her. As that proceeds, he makes her do all the things he once did for her including spending lavishly. Eventually he meets someone and they hit things off

It is here where the heroine realizes that love isn't about money but care and ditches the wealthy man back for the hero who is about to be engaged to this other girl. In the process he teaches her a lesson via public humiliation before a twist in event where he ends up with her.

Morally, the film has a ridiculously stupid content which puts women very low and show how cheap men can behave. When you watch it, they will be alot of hate and frustration feeling. But put that moral value aside and judging the film by the film alone, its not a bad movie actually and it good to have romantic comedy films instead of the usual commercial masala. So in terms of that thumbs of the film

Although I feel at times the film was abit stuck between a romantic comedy and a melodrama but overall the film does well with alot of sequence that will make you laugh and is worthy of an one time entertainer.

Rating: 2.5/5.0

Director Review
Lakshman
It's a good attempt for someone making their directional debut. Would have preferred he shaped his characters slightly more maturely but nevertheless its a good effort. He picked on a subject which will get everyone interested to watch so that was a smart decision. But at times in the story and screenplay you could see some naiveness and rookieness in it. Huge credit for the director for making a film that gave alot of scope for the heroine to perform. It's becoming very much of a rare thing nowdays so it's encouraging to see films with scope for the heroine. I hope Director Lakshman continues to director more films in the future as I would be eager to see what he has next in mind providing he works on his weakness

Rating: 2.3/5.0 

The Cast
Jayam Ravi

Never much a fan of Jayam Ravi but I think now he is slowly finding where he belongs in the hierarchy of Tamil actors and looks like he has found what would be his best strength. I never rated him as a commercial hero or an action hero despite his good physique but he seems to ace it as romantic comedy hero or what is known as The Chocolate Boy.


So this film fits him perfectly like a "T". A helpless romantic who is also a gym instructor. Just the perfect role for the man and he delivers it very well. He seems so convincing as a naive guy and evokes his emotions well. Scenes which involves him being angry was a delight to watch where you will be convinced the guy was piss mad and you don't want to mess with him.

His only weak point in this film was his dancing but well not everyone is natural dancer and I don't see it much of a plus feature for a hero. He justifies his role well and showed why he was the right pick for the film. They can replace him with out hero's like Simbu or Vishal but I don't think they would do justice to the role like how Jayam Ravi did.

 Rating: 3.3/5.0

Hansika Motwani

Perhaps the actress that I despise the most along with Tamanah, so my review on her could be a little bias. Never rated her as an actress and I guess I never will rate her ever. She is just fair and cute but millions of miles behind being called a proper actress like Trisha or Nayanthara. Nevertheless that has nothing to do with her performance in this film

Felt she was ok for the role, someone who looks good physically and who is immature. She carried the character to be a little kiddy and not mature. Not sure if that was intended by the director or is it because that's the only way she knows how to act. Because her character is an orphan from young and she is who she is today because of her effort. Generally that will result in a strong mature character but here it's not

She had her struggles as usual in the scenes which needed her to cry. Never felt the crying was genuine at all. Given a choice I would pick Nayanthara as my lead for this film. I believe she was the director's choice too but had to opt out due to some reasons

 Rating: 2.9/5.0

Poonam Bajwa and VTV Ganesh


This were the other two characters who had any real weight on the film as well as the wealthy mappilai. Both of them did well and it was good to have Poonam back in films after a long time although its not really a role that would suit her. Yet she did well to woo the crowd with her performance and I was rooting Jayam Ravi to end with her instead of Hansika actually. VTV Ganesh had a minimal part to make his presence felt. Had only a couple of real scenes where he could evoke his humor and in those times he did well before his character gradually fades out and you wont feel it.

 Rating: 2.5/5.0

The Music
D.Imman

Loved the opening song of "Dandanaka nakka" but the choreography killed the "Kutuness" of the song and other than that "Thoovanam" was nice to hear. The rest are songs which perhaps I will never remember hearing again. Even the next time it was played, I won't know it's from this film. Rerecording was good and the background score was on point. Not mindblowing but a decent job to get us going with the film



 Rating: 2.7/5.0

Final Verdict: ROMEO JULIET is not the greatest love story of all time but a one men's perception of how today's generation see how love and relationships are

Final Rating: 2.7/5.0

Tuesday, 16 June 2015

Kasi Tukar Sikit La JPJ

Today seemed to be like another normal day as I was scrolling through my Facebook timeline. It was then when I came across a Facebook Status from a friend of mine. She seemed to have had a rough day on the road because of some reckless drivers. That got me thinking and prompted me to write this post

Seeing her post got me thinking of the amount of reckless driving I have witness while I am on the road, well I may have been guilty of some too, so have you too I'm sure. There are two types of people causes reckless driving.. People who knows how to drive and those who don't know how to drive.

Yes believe it or not, many of them out there who don't know how to drive, but they are out there driving risking their life and worse thing, risking the life of others. Yet these people all have license. So how isit possible that you have a legit license but you are a poor driver.

Well this comes down to the fundamental of how license are being granted to us. The current system involves us hearing a long lecture about driving before we do a computer test to gain our "L" license. Than we are given hours to practice in a manual car both on road and circuit before doing the practical exam.

So why not introduce a change here. First of all, there are both auto and manual cars out there. Usually those who can drive manual, can also drive auto cars, but those who have been so comfortable using auto cars, find it difficult to drive manual cars (I am one of them) . So why not have two different license. A separate license for auto and manual cars. 

I can't drive manual cars but with my current license I am eligible to drive it. Putting me behind the wheels of a manual car is just going to increase the risk of accident on the roads. Many people who after getting their drivers license never drove for many years and suddenly buys a car (usually) auto and drives them. So its best I feel we have 2 different license for auto and manual. Although I agree it will be hard to regulate this

Second, scrap off that long lecture on driving. No one really even listens to it. Many would sleep or do other stuff. Instead summarize it to an hour length before they can study for their "L" license test. Next once you have "L" license don't allow them to drive a real car just yet for learning in the school


Instead introduce a driving simulation model for them to practice in a simulator. Have both auto and manual mode in it plus different types of car as different car means different length. Make them drive in the simulator first. Learn how to park, learn how to turn, LEARN HOW TO USE INDICATORS and many more real life situation.


You could simulate different weather conditions and see how  to over come it. Have a simulator test and see if they can pass it. Only if they pass this test, than allow them to be in a real car and practice driving in a driving school. With this type of system in place, you can produce more better and responsible drivers.

But this is just the production stage, so how do we ensure they are still good drivers 10 years from now. Simple, every time they were to renew their license, they have to sit back again for the simulator and practical test and they have to pass it to renew their license. Of cause since they are renewing their license that means they don't have to pay anything extra except the license renewing fees.


With this changes being applied by the JPJ, I'm confident we can produce and sustain more careful and responsible drivers on the road. And that means less accidents too. But of cause, all this will be possible if the system is closely followed without any CORRUPTION being involved.

Saturday, 13 June 2015

My Bucket List

In my life, there are many thing I want to do, so the best way for me to keep track of it is to make a list of it and strike it out once I have completed it. I am going to list it down here and once I have achieved it I will highlight it out a sign it is complete.

  1. A vacation at Pangkor Laut Resort
  2. Owning an IPhone
  3. Having a cake topped with M&M's
  4. Watching Arsenal play from a stadium
  5. Go to the Emirates Stadium
  6. Get an Arsenal player to sign my jersey
  7. Buy the red Ferrari Jacket
  8. Get an original Arsenal jersey with original name set
  9. Bring Casey for a proper grooming session
  10. Get a Golden Retriever and Siberian Huskey
  11. Go for go karting
  12. Try laser tag
  13. Try paintball
  14. Travel to Europe
  15. Travel to an amazing beach anywhere around the world
  16. Direct a short film
  17. Paid to do product review and promotion on my blog
  18. Giving a talk at TED
  19. Take up a pilot license
  20. Buy a small drone/helicopter/plane remote toy
  21. Buy a Ferrari control car which can be controlled by a pedal and remote control
  22. Have a collection of superhero Action Figure
  23. Going for a vacation alone
  24. Going for a buffet hotel dinner on a normal day
  25. Going to Universal Studios in Singapore
  26. Going to Legoland in Johor
  27. Watching a movie in Gold Class
  28. Watching a movie in IMAX
  29. Going for a ship cruise
  30. Trying Bens & Jerry Ice Cream
  31. New headphones for phone and laptop
  32. Beanbag seat for the room
  33. Have a mini fridge in the room filled with beers and chocolates
  34. A TV in the room
  35. Go to Aquaria
  36. Try Miniature Golf 
  37. A collection of super hero T-Shirts 
  38. Becoming a motivational Speaker
  39. Becoming an author
  40. Doing Bungee Jumping
  41. Trying out Jumpstreet

Wednesday, 10 June 2015

Arsenal 2014-2015 Award Ceremony

Its another season of silverware for The Might Arsenal, something we have not been used to hear in the past 9 years. Success is a habit we are starting to get familiar with now. This post would summarize up over season in terms of award and who we should sign for the coming season to ensure we continue to improve


Best Goalkeeper
It's a tale of two halves for the Arsenal goalkeepers..Beginning of the season is was Szczesny who was the established number 1 keeper, but after his error at Southampton, Ospina became the trusted man between the post and hardly has put a foot wrong till the end of the season. Emiliano Martinez played about 6 games in the season but the award goes to David Ospina for Arsenal's Goalkeeper of The Year


Best Defender
I can narrow down the candidates for Arsenal's Best Defender of The Year to three of them, Hector Bellerin, Laurent Koscielny and Nacho Monreal. But the award for me goes to Laurent Koscielny. Monreal was one of our most improved player of the season while Bellerin was an unexpected success, yet both of this player could be replaced without much worries. What Koscielny brings to the squad game after game cant be replaced with another center back here. Strong, establish and always ready to dive in to cover in defensive partners with quick pace. He makes a huge difference every time he plays


Best Midfielder
The most crowded position in the team, but the easiest  winner to choose. When you score 25 goals in a single season playing from the wing, you are obviously the winner of Arsenal's Best Midfielder Alexis Sanchez. In what would be a close competition actually would see Francis Coquelin and Santi Cazrola come in second and third for me

Best Forward
This is another straightforward competition between Oliver Giroud and Danny Welback with Oliver Giroud bagging the award unchallenged.  Ruled out with an injury for almost 3 months, to come back on a scoring spree including against teams like City, United and Liverpool, Oliver Giroud has move up the grades this season and deserving of the Arsenal's Best Forward of The Season.


Best Signing
Sanchez, Debuchy. Chambers, Ospina, Welbeck and Gabriel. That is 6 signings in a single season, very un Arsene Wenger like. Yet again the is no questions raised on who deserves to be Arsenal's Best Signing of The Season, its Alexis Sanchez

Best Player
When you are the Best Midfielder and the Best signing of the season with 25 goals, its no rocket science to guess who is Arsenal's Best Player of The Season. Yes it's Alexis Sanchez once again
 


Best Young Player
Usually 23 years old is often considered as a "Young Footballer" and in that case, Francis Coquelin is Arsenal's Best Young Player of The Season. Went out on loan to Charlton only to be recall back to the team due to short of players. Picked up four booking in a row in his first 4 games of the season, and from there onwards there was no looking back for Le Coq. One of the biggest reason for Arsenal's success besides Alexis. Despite only playing half a season, the stats he ranked up was better than Matic, making him the best defensive midfielder in the league



Best Goal
This stunning strike by Ramsey against Galatasaray



Best Win of the Season
I wouldn't picked the FA Cup Quarter Final 1-0 win over United as the best win of the season because that would give them too much credit that they deserve. My pick would be the 2-0 away from home win against Manchester City. It was a perfect performance from all the players on the pitch. Often criticized for not being able to make his team play a different type of football, Wenger proved them wrong. He set his team up defensively solid with Ramsey and Le Coq staying discipline behind holding the line while Alexis and The Ox worked their socks off on the flanks, attacking and providing cover for the fullbacks. A superb display and a superb win


Players to Sign




Sign this 3 lads and we would challenge for the league next season!!!!!