Those days, when men wanted the companion of a female, he would usually hire a G.R.O or a prostitute. A G.R.O would usually offer these men company for the night at clubs or events and eventually end the night with them for sex. While a prostitute would just get paid for sex and nothing else.
This two forms of "entertainment" has largely been seen as a taboo among society and people often look down at people who are involved in this kind of activities let be men or women. Fast forward a couple of years, and you will see a change in trend.
There is a new thing going on called a Sugar Daddy. Well for those who don't know what a Sugar Daddy is, it is actually a term used to describe " a rich older man who lavishes money and gifts for a younger woman in return for her company of sexual favour". The woman describe here is called a Sugar Baby.
I know many of you might think that "It's the same as prostitution, men pays woman for sex". If you were to ask this to any Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby, they will deny this. Because it's usually not about the sex. Sometimes they do it for the companionship. People who are unhappy and lonely in their life pay to have company. Some do it for the sex.
What makes it really different from G.R.O and Prostitution is that Sugar Daddy and Sugar Baby goes on on expensive dates, rich dinners and even on vacation spending time together. The Sugar Baby gets paid on a monthly basis or per meeting basis which could be between a range of RM 1000 - RM 3000 per month.
That is some really big and easy money for the Sugar Baby and perhaps is the strongest reason why more and more Malaysian Girls are willing to be a Sugar Baby. Below is a quote taken from an article by The Star
Rage. *Link to article: Sugar Babies In Malaysia
But this is not the end of this trend, because what you have now going on, especially in Malaysia is the "relationship" between a Sugar Mummy and a Sugar Boy. Yes the same thing but this time elder rich woman paying boys for companion and sex.
I know many of you would choose not to believe this try to ignore the fact this is happening, but trust me this is for real and this trend is starting to creep into Malaysia. And it's not so hard to find a Sugar Mummy thanks to the power of internet.
It's not like you have to be friends with an elder lady and make a move on her on hope she makes you an offer. No! There are websites like "Seeking Arrangement" whereby all you need to do is create a profile and wait for an offer by a Sugar Mummy.
Worse is that, this is also happening via WhatsApp. About a week ago I got a number of person who claims to be an agent who does match making for Sugar Daddy and Sugar Mummy for their Sugar Baby and Sugar Boy. So I decided to text this person and see how the process takes place.
All you have to do is WhatsApp this person and say you are looking for a Sugar Mummy. He/She will collect some basic details of you and send you pictures of Sugar Mummy available around the area you are comfortable with. You pick the Sugar Mummy you like and inform the agent. In return he will contact that Sugar Mummy and show her pictures of you to see if she is interested. If she likes you than there you go you have your own Sugar Mummy. You will need to pay the agent a fee for setting you up and from there on you carry things on with your Sugar Mummy.
As much as you want to deny it, this things are happening and are happening for real. I even manage to spoke to someone who said they are willing to be a sugar baby providing she can find a sugar daddy who pays. So yeah its a culture that is happening around us like it or not.
Which leads to my next point, as a country we are too hung up over petty unimportant and stupid issues like, the need to wear a sarong to cover your legs, Cross in a Muslim populated area or the dress code of a gymnast. Unimportant things like this are making headlines, but serious issues like this are swept under the carpet.
Allowing this culture could lead to alot of damage in the future. They say "youths are the future of the country", so do we want a future whereby its ok to pay for companionship and sex. If actions are not taken now to prevent this from an early age, it could lead to things going wrong. Imagine people like this being parents one day. Would they encourage their kids to the same. What sort of respect will the kids have towards elder people. Would they start seeing elder people and a means to make money via companionship and sex.
Wake up Malaysian!!! Its time to do something about this kind of things before it becomes a norm
Finally, I have attached a poll on the bottom of this post whereby if you were get paid RM 3000 and above a month, would you consider being a Sugar Baby or a Sugar Boy. You can choose YES or NO. Don't worry nobody will be able to know the identity of the individual who votes so your identity would be protected. The poll is to show how many people in our society today are open to the concept of the SUGAR LIFE